| 231 | VALENTINE'S DAY: WHAT'S LOVE GOT TO DO WITH IT? Preview: VALENTINE'S DAY: WHAT'S LOVE GOT TO DO WITH IT? By Pauline Wallin, Ph.D. Author, "Taming Your Inner Brat: A Guide for Transforming Self-defeating Behavior" The perfect card, the perfect gift, the perfect date . . . Isn't there enough pressure in relationships without having to live up to some romantic ideal on Valentine's Day? This is not how ... (more) Published By: Pauline Wallin, Ph.D. Submitted: 30 January,2004 |
| 232 | Discerning The Loving Heart Preview: The following article is offered for free use in your ezine, print publication or on your web site, so long as the author resource box at the end is included, with hyperlinks. Notification of publication would be appreciated. Title: Discerning The Loving Heart Author: Margaret Paul, Ph.D. E-mail: mailto:margaret@innerbonding.com Copyright: © 2... (more) Published By: Margaret Paul, Ph.D, Submitted: 10 February,2004 |
| 233 | The Most Eloquent Speech I Ever Heard Preview: “This is Our Finest Hour?” “I Have a Dream?” No, nothing like that. This is a speech of 2 words I heard the other day. I was in a hospital getting a chest x-ray, a prerequisite for surgery on my broken ankle. It’s been two weeks since it happened, two weeks full of pain, change, and coping. I’ve described how it happened, learned how to get aroun... (more) Published By: Susan Dunn, MA, Personal and Professional Development Coach Submitted: 18 February,2004 |
| 234 | Emotional Expression: An EQ Competency Preview: Expressing emotions accurately is an EQ competency. Experiencing them and expressing them when appropriate is a matter of mental and physical health. In fact there’s a phrase in psychology called “acting out,” which means if you don’t say it, you’re going to do it. You’ll act it out. Are you acting out your emotions and sabotaging yourself inste... (more) Published By: Susan Dunn, MA, Personal and Professional Development Coach Submitted: 18 February,2004 |
| 235 | Anger and you relationships Preview: “Dr. Fiore,” the voice on the phone pleaded, “I need anger management classes right away. I blew up at my girlfriend last night and she said it’s over until I get help.” As Kevin recounted the first night of class, he and his girlfriend had argued in the car over which route to take home from a party. Events progressed from mild irritation, to ye... (more) Published By: Dr Tony Fiore Submitted: 22 February,2004 |
| 236 | Anger and your driving Preview: Are you driving under the influence of impaired emotions? Dateline: December 4, 2002. Orange County ,California. A 29 year old man was shot to death, an apparent victim of road rage. According to newspaper accounts, he had a reputation for never backing down from a fight. The man and his half brother were heading home from a plumbing job when th... (more) Published By: Dr. Tony Fiore Submitted: 22 February,2004 |
| 237 | Mastering the Fine Art of Hinting Preview: Currently circulating the Internet is “Man’s Rules”. The sender requests you send it on to all females, so that women will “finally understand men.” It’s a list of things men want women to understand, and like all humor, it makes a point. Then again to men it might not be so humorous. And here we go on communication … Point number 6 is: “Ask for... (more) Published By: Susan Dunn, MA, The EQ Coach Submitted: 23 February,2004 |
| 238 | Hypnotic Myths Preview: Even though hypnosis has been around officially since the 1700s (Franz Anton Mesmer), there are still questions as to its validity and benefits. For the most part, these questions stem from fear and ignorance. Regarding this subject, it is generally assumed that what you don’t know can hurt you. People’s viewpoints on hypnosis vary according to wh... (more) Published By: Rita Ballard Submitted: 06 March,2004 |
| 239 | Gifted Adults and their Careers Preview: "James is so restless and energetic. I wonder if he's hyperactive." "Nancy seems to be all over the place. She's got a dozen projects going at once!" "Harley does things so fast! He put up a website in two weeks." "Marlene is so intense. She needs to lighten up." While it's possible that James is hyperactive, Nancy is scattered, Harley skat... (more) Published By: Cathy Goodwin, Ph.D. Submitted: 08 March,2004 |
| 240 | "If you can't be happy where you are, maybe you need to move!" Preview: Every time I give a talk about life transition, someone invariably calls to say, "I believe happiness is inside us. If you can't be happy here, you can't be happy anywhere." I have to resist the temptation to shout, "Aaargh!" We all know people who never seem to be happy. They move from one town to another. Maybe they keep changing jobs. It's te... (more) Published By: Cathy Goodwin, Ph.D. Submitted: 08 March,2004 |
| 241 | Major Depression and Manic-Depression — Any difference? Preview: Countless number of patients and their family members have asked me about manic–depression and major depression. “Is there any difference?” “Are they one and the same?” “Is the treatment the same?” And so on. Each time I encounter a chorus of questions like these, I am enthused to provide answers. You know why? Because the difference between the... (more) Published By: Michael G. Rayel, MD Submitted: 16 March,2004 |
| 242 | MYTHS AND FACTS ABOUT ANGER Preview: You have permission to publish this article electronically or in print, free of charge, as long as the bylines are included and the article is published in its entirety. A courtesy copy of your publication would be appreciated. Send it to mailto:drwallin@drwallin.com MYTHS AND FACTS ABOUT ANGER By Pauline Wallin, Ph.D Author of "Taming Your Inne... (more) Published By: Pauline Wallin, Ph.D. Submitted: 21 March,2004 |
| 243 | There is Attitude and Attitude Preview: Attitude has a lot to do with how our life goes. We win the lottery and we are happy or we lose our jobs and we are angry. However does it have to be that way we can decide how to feel about anything that happens it all depends on your attitude. You are responsible for all your experiences in life. We cannot control what happens to us for their... (more) Published By: Judi Singleton Submitted: 27 March,2004 |
| 244 | Use Your Emotional Intelligence in All Your Relationships Preview: A recent article I read about what’s called “hierarchical relationships” in the work place, reminded me of a very important fact about all relationships. As soon as we start thinking we are better than someone else, or smarter than they are, or more important – across the board – we are in trouble, and the work is in trouble, and the relationship ... (more) Published By: Susan Dunn, Emotional Intelligence Coach Submitted: 04 April,2004 |
| 245 | How to Get the Relationship You Want Preview: We tend to think of finding the right relationship as being a hunt for another person, and it is. But it depends first of all on being ready yourself. The best way to do this is to develop your emotional intelligence skills. It’s all about relationships and emotions, after all. You could meet the most “right” person in the world, and still not be... (more) Published By: Susan Dunn, Personal and Professional Development Coach Submitted: 08 April,2004 |
| 246 | Are You Sure She Knows That? Preview: I was out shopping for my beloved Annie, the little girl in my life, with my friend, Betty, who has four daughters of her own, five granddaughters, and two great-granddaughters. She’s a woman of a certain age, with wisdom, whose advice I’m often glad to take. Shopping for a girl is new to me, the mother of grown sons. I can pull the right car, le... (more) Published By: Susan Dunn, MA, Emotional Intelligence Coach Submitted: 12 April,2004 |
| 247 | ARE YOU ALWAYS LATE? Preview: ARE YOU ALWAYS LATE? “Fashionably late” is no longer in fashion. In today’s heavily scheduled world, it is the punctual who are respected and admired. Even though most of us know this, some people are always late, no matter how much time they have to get ready. You may be one of them. Do any of the following sound familiar? ** You're always rush... (more) Published By: Pauline Wallin, Ph.D. Submitted: 13 April,2004 |
| 248 | Self improvement: Turn Down the Rheostat Preview: I woke up one morning with a terrible sore throat that got worse as the day went on, instead of better, as I had hoped. By the time I realized it was a true case of laryngitis, and all I could do was croak, it was too late to cancel the Cub Scouts who were due at my house right after school. I wondered how I would manage when I could only whisper,... (more) Published By: Susan Dunn, MA Psychology, Emotional Intelligence Coach Submitted: 18 April,2004 |
| 249 | How to Replace Bad Habits with Good Ones: The Science of “Habit Management” Preview: Few things are more difficult than kicking bad habits or developing more positive ones. But it is definitely worth the effort. Bad habits like smoking, overeating or self-criticism shorten lives and lead to underachievement, and unsuccessful attempts to change them lower self-esteem. In contrast, good habits create a kind of “success auto... (more) Published By: Dr. Stephen Kraus, Success Scientist Submitted: 19 April,2004 |
| 250 | How to Get Happiness Preview: I’m a coach who works with clients on personal and professional development issues. While no client has ever specifically asked me to help them become “happier,” I think it’s the purpose, yes? Our goals, plans and dreams are all designed to make us happier. But what happens when we achieve a goal? Well, have you ever talked to someone who finally... (more) Published By: Susan Dunn, MA, Emotional Intelligence Coach Submitted: 22 April,2004 |